One of the most powerful things you can do in your lifetime
is to get complete with your parents.
Now you might be wondering, what do I mean by getting “complete” with your parents?
I mean, having a sense of ease, calm and peace of mind…and even freedom…
for all of your childhood experiences and interactions with your parents.
the good ones, the bad ones, the ugly ones.
…and even the crazy ones….
and everything else in between.
and what I really mean by this is….having gratitude for…
all the things your parents didn’t do for you, that you wanted
all the things your parents did do for you, that you didn’t want,
all the things you wanted them to say but they never did,
all the things they said to you which you never heard,
because ALL OF THIS sticks with you,
in your physiology, your chemistry and in your energy….
your entire BEING.
and what’s ironic,
is that anything that you haven’t healed with your parents,
and left incomplete,
shows up in EVERY SINGLE other relationship you have.
Seriously, I’m not kidding.
For example…
If you feel that you were abandoned as a child,
you will experience abandonment in your relationships…
whether it’s with your significant other,
your close friends, your work….it will simply keep showing up.
If you experienced the feeling of not being enough,
and having to constantly strive to be more to receive love from your parents,
in school, grades, sports, music or other….
guess what you will experience as an adult…
the exact same feelings of not being enough.
and feeling like no matter what you do, you will never achieve that which you desire.
and the emptiness of that feeling persists.
and will persist….until you get complete.
When you begin to get fully complete with your parents…
who they are,
and who they are not.
and truly have gratitude for your relationship,
NO MATTER WHAT THEY HAVE DONE….
your relationship with them with completely change,
your life will change,
essentially you will begin to manifest something different.
because at the end of the day,
we do not manifest what we desire,
we manifest WHO WE ARE.
And when you begin to see that life is a game of LOVE,
and that anything you don’t love,
you either keep attracting over and over again,
or you simply BECOME that thing you resent…
one of the most loving things you can do for yourself is love you parents as they are,
not who you wish they would be,
not who you dreamt they would be,
but loving them for exactly who they are,
And this just changes EVERYTHING.
life just gets a little easier.
and a helluva lot more fun.
and….more flow.
so if your current relationship with your partner, your kids, your mother in law, or your neighbour,
bring up frustration, grief, resentment….
get complete with your parents FIRST.
and watch what happens next…it will be truly astounding – promise.
You got this,
you always did.
Dr. Shelby
